{"id":32835,"date":"2024-04-22T09:43:53","date_gmt":"2024-04-22T13:43:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/alumni\/?post_type=bates_events&#038;p=32835"},"modified":"2024-04-22T09:43:58","modified_gmt":"2024-04-22T13:43:58","slug":"bobcat-reads-we-should-not-be-friends","status":"publish","type":"bates_events","link":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/alumni\/events\/bobcat-reads-we-should-not-be-friends\/","title":{"rendered":"Bobcat Reads: We Should Not Be Friends"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"353\" height=\"522\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/alumni\/files\/2024\/04\/we-should-not-be-friends.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-32836\" style=\"width:323px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/alumni\/files\/2024\/04\/we-should-not-be-friends.webp 353w, https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/alumni\/files\/2024\/04\/we-should-not-be-friends-203x300.webp 203w, https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/alumni\/files\/2024\/04\/we-should-not-be-friends-135x200.webp 135w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 353px) 100vw, 353px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pbc.guru\/bates\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Bobcat Reads<\/a>\u00a0will be discussing <em>We Should Not Be Friends: The Story of a Friendship<\/em> by Will Schwalbe from <strong>May 24, 2024 through July 26<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>We Should Not Be Friends<\/em> by Will Schwalbe is a heartwarming memoir that follows the unlikely and transformative friendship between the author and his college classmate, Chris Maxey, over forty years. 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