{"id":2516,"date":"2010-04-21T17:46:46","date_gmt":"2010-04-21T17:46:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hub-dev.bates.edu\/magazine\/?page_id=2516"},"modified":"2017-09-06T11:41:04","modified_gmt":"2017-09-06T15:41:04","slug":"hello-goodbye","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/back-issues\/y2004\/summer04\/quad-angles\/hello-goodbye\/","title":{"rendered":"Hello, Goodbye"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A concerned mother&#8217;s query about the Bates party scene was as tough as it got for student panelists at a morning Q-and-A session.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright\" style=\"margin-left: 0px;margin-right: 0px;border: 0px initial initial\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/Images\/Bates_Magazine\/Summer04\/gbye.gif\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" hspace=\"0\" width=\"157\" height=\"165\" align=\"right\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m not going to lie to you,&#8221; said Ryan O&#8217;Connor &#8217;06, indicating that partying happens at Bates. But he and the other panelists, Megan Price &#8217;04 and Elisabeth Anson &#8217;04, assured an attentive audience that peer pressure to party is minimal and chem-free activities abound.<\/p>\n<p>Someone else wondered what made Bates people so friendly, which occasioned several minutes of friendly-Bates stories. Price said that from the very start of her Bates career, &#8220;I was struck by how much people just waved and smiled.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She sees poorly without her glasses, she added, and therefore often waves and smiles at strangers whom she mistakes for friends. &#8220;That&#8217;s OK,&#8221; Price said. &#8220;They always wave and smile back.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>We encountered Price again later at an activities fair showcasing 25 student organizations, including the Brooks Quimby Debate Society, the Women&#8217;s Rugby Club, OUTfront, the Manic Optimists, the Crosstones, the New World Coalition, the College Republicans and Bates Democrats, and WRBC-FM.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s a great people-watching day,&#8221; said Price, raising her voice because of the crowd in the Benjamin Mays Center and a loud tango from the Bates Ballroom Society&#8217;s boombox. &#8220;Although it freaks me out to see these little pins that say &#8217;08&#8217;.&#8221; Getting old is hell.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, Price confessed to a certain jealousy as she watched the fresh-faced teens eager to begin their college careers. But she remembered the newbie&#8217;s insecurity, too. &#8220;As a prospective student I felt like this little speck on the wall among these giant students,&#8221; she laughed. &#8220;Now I&#8217;m supposed to be the giant.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A concerned mother&#8217;s query about the Bates party scene was as tough&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":221,"featured_media":0,"parent":2515,"menu_order":1,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","template":"","meta":{"_hide_ai_chatbot":false,"_ai_chatbot_style":"","associated_faculty":[],"_Page_Specific_Css":"","_bates_restrict_mod":false,"_dimp_site_id":"","_dimp_override_contact":false,"_table_of_contents_display":false,"_table_of_contents_location":"","_table_of_contents_disableSticky":false,"_is_featured":false,"footnotes":"","_bates_seo_meta_description":"","_bates_seo_block_robots":false,"_bates_seo_sharing_image_id":0,"_bates_seo_sharing_image_twitter_id":0,"_bates_seo_share_title":"","_bates_seo_canonical_overwrite":"","_bates_seo_twitter_template":""},"class_list":["post-2516","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2516","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/221"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2516"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2516\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11452,"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2516\/revisions\/11452"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2515"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2516"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}