{"id":4479,"date":"2010-04-21T18:38:47","date_gmt":"2010-04-21T18:38:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hub-dev.bates.edu\/magazine\/piano-man\/"},"modified":"2017-09-06T13:43:20","modified_gmt":"2017-09-06T17:43:20","slug":"family","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/back-issues\/y2000\/fall00\/features\/family\/","title":{"rendered":"A Family Affair"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>The threads that run through Reunion connect alumni, memories, and those who went before.<\/h3>\n<p>By H. Jay Burns<\/p>\n<p>Bates had not yet graduated its first college class when Addison and Florence Small welcomed a son, William, into the world in 1863.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/Images\/Bates_Magazine\/Fall00\/fall00-family-affair.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" hspace=\"0\" width=\"168\" height=\"130\" align=\"right\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When William was just a toddler, his father entered Bates, graduating with the Class of 1869. A Lewiston banking career lay ahead for Addison, including long service as a Bates Trustee and treasurer. So imagine father Addison&#8217;s pride when William Small entered Bates in 1881 and graduated four years later, thus becoming the College&#8217;s very first legacy.<\/p>\n<p>Now imagine you are Jim Balano &#8217;75, sitting at the 2000 Reunion Awards Ceremony. You&#8217;re about to announce your class&#8217; Reunion gift totals for the year, but your mind is on family. And on Bates. They both swirl together.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Both my parents attended Bates,&#8221; he said. &#8220;This year would have been my father&#8217;s 60th Reunion; he died when I was a sophomore. And I was able to attend my last Reunion with my mother, before she passed away.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>When it was time for Balano, whose brother, aunt, uncle, and cousins also went to Bates, to announce 1975&#8217;s class gift, he rose and asked his fellow alumni to raise a hand if a Bates family member had turned them on to Bates. Hands rose fast, as if he asked who thought it was a nice day.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I guess I did it less for myself but as a tribute to my parents,&#8221; he said. &#8220;I didn&#8217;t want to grab the light. But I got to Bates because of my parents, so I wanted to know who else in the crowd were in that position &#8211; we came to Bates for education and it became part of our family.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Come Reunion each year, the legacy families who parade across the Quad reaffirm that Bates is, for many, a family college.<\/p>\n<p>Hugh and Lois Kenniston Penney, 1950 classmates, were the first of their respective families to attend Bates. In the last half-century, more than a dozen Penney siblings, in-laws, cousins, children, and grandchildren have attended. Their granddaughter Melissa &#8217;03 (daughter of Bruce &#8217;76 and Janice Malatesta Penney &#8217;77) served as 1950&#8217;s class host at Reunion.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Melissa&#8217;s sister is at Bowdoin, which is nice and we love her dearly, but when Melissa told us she was going to Bates, it was so exhilarating,&#8221; Lois said. &#8220;The feeling is so wonderful that Bates will have meaning for her generation of the family the way it&#8217;s had meaning for generations before her.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The threads that run through Reunion connect alumni, memories, and those who&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":221,"featured_media":0,"parent":4481,"menu_order":3,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","template":"","meta":{"_hide_ai_chatbot":false,"_ai_chatbot_style":"","associated_faculty":[],"_Page_Specific_Css":"","_bates_restrict_mod":false,"_dimp_site_id":"","_dimp_override_contact":false,"_table_of_contents_display":false,"_table_of_contents_location":"","_table_of_contents_disableSticky":false,"_is_featured":false,"footnotes":"","_bates_seo_meta_description":"","_bates_seo_block_robots":false,"_bates_seo_sharing_image_id":0,"_bates_seo_sharing_image_twitter_id":0,"_bates_seo_share_title":"","_bates_seo_canonical_overwrite":"","_bates_seo_twitter_template":""},"class_list":["post-4479","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/4479","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/221"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4479"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/4479\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12307,"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/4479\/revisions\/12307"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/4481"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bates.edu\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4479"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}